tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post4111880629815915193..comments2023-11-05T03:37:33.926-08:00Comments on chapters of our life: are you from crazy townAnniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17773608422571911723noreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-84142529538081058322009-10-31T13:03:50.929-07:002009-10-31T13:03:50.929-07:00Ugh....I'm sorry you have to deal with this dr...Ugh....I'm sorry you have to deal with this drama, girl. I wish I had some advice for you....Stay strong. Try not to let it get to you.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07820615307402518583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-10067840234180752362009-10-27T18:18:42.526-07:002009-10-27T18:18:42.526-07:00Oh no! Sorry a fun night turned into a dramafest. ...Oh no! Sorry a fun night turned into a dramafest. :( That's really lame of her to say...and then to keep.going.off.about.it. Sheeeesh.. let it go!!! *sigh*Jaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09094114269221122173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-75014598108236067222009-10-26T07:53:14.339-07:002009-10-26T07:53:14.339-07:00It's sad that sometimes people can't just ...It's sad that sometimes people can't just let things like this go...it sounds like it's about time.Rachel H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09461830604980230924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-78117515009420776842009-10-26T02:31:31.496-07:002009-10-26T02:31:31.496-07:00omg i cant believe she said she wouldnt go to your...omg i cant believe she said she wouldnt go to your wedding! thats quite immature! xxLived With Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04314005731385741692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-45458450443320278692009-10-25T17:47:02.431-07:002009-10-25T17:47:02.431-07:00uh first of all, i think everyone should get a fre...uh first of all, i think everyone should get a free pass for what they did when they were 21, i mean hello! who knew what they were doing then?!? second.. she should let it go. but she won't, because she's girl and girls don't let that crap go! third, don't even worry about it. invite them both. they'll both come, shoot daggers at each other if they must, but you won't care- you'll be getting married! and if you want, i'll come and be security. i do love a good chick fight!<br /><br />kidding. but seriously, don't worry about it. she probably regrets saying it (because she does remember it, i don't buy that excuse EVER!) but won't apologize because then it has to be brought back up.Perfectly Imperfecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16128584550959614381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-54920558063860559832009-10-24T21:50:29.241-07:002009-10-24T21:50:29.241-07:00I wish my life was more "peachy"!I wish my life was more "peachy"!Blaséhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08297191177174465494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-34399743297946489172009-10-24T19:19:29.440-07:002009-10-24T19:19:29.440-07:00I am so sorry!! That was definitely not right!! ...I am so sorry!! That was definitely not right!! I mean it was a long time ago, it wasn't just your friends fault it was your brothers too. It makes me mad how sometimes people only put the blame on one person. And your BF tried to apologize. She seriously needs to drop it. Just move on! I am sorry, she had no right to put you in between that and to say she wouldn't go to your wedding. Not mature at all!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-15612790194187586312009-10-24T14:53:51.354-07:002009-10-24T14:53:51.354-07:00WOW, it is so not fair to put you in the middle of...WOW, it is so not fair to put you in the middle of that. Not the most mature thing I've ever heard about it. I hope she doesn't continue to make problems for you!BonBon Rose Girls Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699626979106427874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-51852765992534732472009-10-23T21:49:36.289-07:002009-10-23T21:49:36.289-07:00Aw, sweetie, what a terrible night. It's so ha...Aw, sweetie, what a terrible night. It's so hard because from the sounds of it, I don't think she'll ever forgive your bestie. But by no means should the ruin your wedding or your wedding plans. I feel for you because you're stuck in the middle. I'm glad she apologized to you. I hope over time she will heal...and not put you in an awkward position again.<br />Take care, honey!Elahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14467087758859804644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-15136844607328451452009-10-23T20:09:08.295-07:002009-10-23T20:09:08.295-07:00WOW!!!!!!! I know what you mean. But HOWEVER, I ha...WOW!!!!!!! I know what you mean. But HOWEVER, I have never been in that position, obviously, but I'm kinda sidding [if that's the proper word] with her. I don't think I could EVER forget something like that, let alone forgive. But then again, I've never been in that position. Again, this was ages ago, and "bestie" apparently was genuine about her apologies, so she should not be bringing that up like it just happened..:*aMbAr*:.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14163925947797253348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-68060803194850599262009-10-23T14:53:04.775-07:002009-10-23T14:53:04.775-07:00dang girl! are we related?? I feel your pain, peop...dang girl! are we related?? I feel your pain, people just need to grow up! Hope it all works out and that you have an awesome weekend! = )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-57818075579964459492009-10-23T14:47:54.088-07:002009-10-23T14:47:54.088-07:00Oh wow! How awful! If she can forgive your brothe...Oh wow! How awful! If she can forgive your brother, she should forgive your BF as well. I'm so sorry, when you're thinking about your wedding this is definitely not something you should have to deal with!The Rest is Still Unwrittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10002335002875952611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-7703232265715505112009-10-23T14:46:38.682-07:002009-10-23T14:46:38.682-07:00oh man! that is crazy! that is really hard situati...oh man! that is crazy! that is really hard situation to be in! but it is your wedding and you are allowed to invite whoever you want! she should respect that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-73897801881236537722009-10-23T12:22:19.073-07:002009-10-23T12:22:19.073-07:00Oh Annie! I'm so sorry you had to go through t...Oh Annie! I'm so sorry you had to go through that! She has some serious commitment or trust issues and she's trying to project her problems on you. Keep your chin up and try not to worry!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16234474590777856565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-3346292620331607292009-10-23T10:54:35.788-07:002009-10-23T10:54:35.788-07:00DRAMA! DRAMA! DRAMA! cant live with it cant live w...DRAMA! DRAMA! DRAMA! cant live with it cant live without it! me personaly i probably would of hit the bitch ahaha jk but i did get into a fist fight with my sis-in-law. pretty crazy but its all still good in the hood we are still friend, what can i say shes the mother of my nephew .<br /><br /> it sucks she put you in the middle like that. and i bet she remebers asking and what happened she just doesnt want to feel stupid. i hope she gets over her period and comes to her sences. its not her right to tell you whose coming to YOUR wedding and whose not. just go BRIDZILLA on her jk. but on a real note dont let her take your special day away just becuase she wants to pout about something that happened 3 years ago. i hope she attends your wedding and i hope its not going to be round 2 at your wedding. good luck girly <3Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12899742987523548479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-64734815797879717722009-10-23T10:52:39.552-07:002009-10-23T10:52:39.552-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12899742987523548479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-90339962341123356332009-10-23T08:33:06.608-07:002009-10-23T08:33:06.608-07:00Ew, that's rough! That's such a hard posit...Ew, that's rough! That's such a hard position to be in. I guess only time will tell as it gets closer and closer to your big day what will actually happen. I hope things work out the best way possible.Crazy Shenanigans-JMOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03494603714481735184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-49397761820355407742009-10-23T06:17:53.361-07:002009-10-23T06:17:53.361-07:00WOW, life throws you curve balls and that was a cu...WOW, life throws you curve balls and that was a curve ball my friend!!! But I'm with you, life's way short to dwell in the past!!Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08257352882657911252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-10975665993285811122009-10-23T05:23:27.358-07:002009-10-23T05:23:27.358-07:00Oh wow, that really sucks. I hope she chills out ...Oh wow, that really sucks. I hope she chills out and everyone can come to the wedding when you decide to have it.SassyCassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239795454050390941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-44636904553939250652009-10-23T04:51:10.125-07:002009-10-23T04:51:10.125-07:00So sorry for the drama!! Apparently she is still ...So sorry for the drama!! Apparently she is still hurt by what your brother did & it is something that they need to talk about & work out on their own & NOT get you involved in it. You have no control over what other people do or don't do BUT you do get to control your wedding plans & guest list!!<br /><br />On a side note though...that is really crappy of your bro & your best friend to do that to her ESPECIALLY since she was pregnant at the time. There are so many emotions & feelings running through your head at that time not to mention your body changing & getting bigger.....I know I felt unattractive at certain times while pregnant & it would have crushed me if my hubby did that to me!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08000132258954274515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-90937272681465709412009-10-23T01:43:19.533-07:002009-10-23T01:43:19.533-07:00Wow, I am so sorry! That's really terrible of ...Wow, I am so sorry! That's really terrible of her to act like that. Yes I am sure that it is hard to forget something like that, but when it comes to you and your feelings on your wedding day, she should totally put that aside and act like a grown up! I hope everything works out!Jon and Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18175998334329244279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-6974868717258478982009-10-23T01:33:26.643-07:002009-10-23T01:33:26.643-07:00This is crazy. Remind her (if this ever comes up a...This is crazy. Remind her (if this ever comes up again) that she ended up with your brother! And your wedding is your wedding and you are going to decide who's invited or not. Then again, I hope this never comes up again. It's just silly. It's not like it happened three months ago...but years! Oh boy. I'll keep my fingers crossed though. :D Don't let it ruin your life! OK?! Okay!!!!Selma @ Crazy Little World Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15929702117923613383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-21589669589611770062009-10-22T22:30:48.618-07:002009-10-22T22:30:48.618-07:00I'm sorry girl! That sucks, she really took it...I'm sorry girl! That sucks, she really took it to a mean place by saying she won't go to your wedding. I'm sure when you do get married she will hopefully be adult enough to put her grudges aside...Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02271996617242681873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-26447800491950318192009-10-22T20:53:49.106-07:002009-10-22T20:53:49.106-07:00I hope that she's able to be enough at ease wi...I hope that she's able to be enough at ease with the situation that when you actually have a date set she will let your nephew come. Don't let it ruin this exciting time in your life! Keep your head up!Love Lacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17314277455881457396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586545115478426313.post-27311010804546109242009-10-22T20:00:02.371-07:002009-10-22T20:00:02.371-07:00Hey there :) I've been following you for a whi...Hey there :) I've been following you for a while on here (that sounds creepy, didnt mean for it to be! Haha!).. anyways, I am also getting married soon and I'm just gonnna warn ya- planning a wedding really shows everyones true colors. I've learned so many new things (good and bad) about who my true friends are and which family members I can trust. I think you have every right to be upset, I know I would be! But at the same time.. think about if the same thing happened to you. What if DM's best friend kissed your fiance? I know if my sister-in-laws best friend kissed my fiance I would be livid and probably punch her if I ever saw her.. Just try to talk it out with her, she shouldnt have said that your nephew can't go to the wedding- that is just wrong. Chalk it up to her being drunk and hopefully she can be civil for your sake :) Also, don't worry about not having wedding plans yet.. enjoy your engagement! When the fiance and I get married in May, we will have been engaged for 2 1/2 years :) It's good to take your time and not rush into it. Good luck with everything!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14332357896924226927noreply@blogger.com