Monday, November 16, 2009

not going to happen anymore....

my weekend was mostly spent with children...

there will not be a next time with that one family...
i babysat for 2 different families this weekend...

i want to think when i have my own kids...
(i want four, btw)
things will be different...
they will have manners...
they will not whine about every.single.little.thing...
they will respect their elders...

the "one family"...
had 3 little ones who were adorable...
their house was a horrible mess...
more on them and pics tomorrow...

i did get to spend around 20 hours with my sister...
i did have a good time on friday night at target...
i did enjoy a beer and appetizers at applebees with billy as well...
i did get to watch desperate housewives last night...
*i think the new housewife on the block might be the attacker*

last night was...
i don't know the word to describe it...
the night ended in tears...
life is confusing at times...

this morning...
i woke up to a soft kiss good bye...
i am feeling off...
a tad sad...

i am sure everyone has times like this...

anywho...i hope everyone had a great weekend!!!
i am already looking forward to next weekend!
love always....me

58 comments:

Jon and Steph said...

I'm sorry you're feeling off! I know we all do at times. I hope today is a great day missy!!

Aishlea and Brandon said...

So sorry you're not feeling the best today. Hope your day gets better and wishing you happy thoughts to cheer you up!! :)

Marissa said...

Sorry you're not having the best few days. It'll all work out :)

Lindsey said...

Sorry friend, I hope things get better. HUGS!!

Abby Kreck said...

Amen on the manners and respect from kids...FOR SURE! Some parents just do what's easiest for them and let their kids run rampid...no bueno! I LOVED desperate last night! It was great! Have a great week girl!

♥Aubrey said...

Oh hun...i'm sending you a {{Hug}}. Feel better whatever it is.

Onto the babysitting horror...i fell ya. Children these days NEED to be taught manners. It's important!!! Respecting elders is #1. Sorry that happened.

Jennifer said...

Aww...hope everything is okay. We all have those times. TRUST ME. :)

saucyminx410 said...

I'm already looking forward to next weekend too! Come on week fly by!!!

Sarah M. said...

My mom always says that your kids will be like you. If you display good manners, don't whine, respect your elders, etc., they will simply follow your lead.
I have my sad days too - hope you start feeling better!

Kym said...

ahhh, kids. i can only hope the same for mine.. that they'll have manners, be respectful, kind, gentle, caring, etc.

and don't worry, we all have days like that.. where nothing makes sense, life is confusing, but in time, things will get better, i promise :)

PaigeR530 said...

I'm sorry that you are having an off day! We all have them sometimes, and they are perfectly ok! I hope you feel a lot better ASAP, and that whatever is making you feel confused becomes clear very soon.

Jenny.Lee said...

I hope you feel more like yourself as they day goes on. Times like this are never fun. Thinking of you!

Whitney said...

I hope everything is okay, sweetie! I understand the tears and frustrations... I go through those times too, and the next day I usually feel "off" as well. *sigh*

If you need anything at all, please let me know! XXX

Cat* said...

Oh I hope you will have a great day today!!! I send a big portion of my happy mood from Germany to you darling :)

brittany said...

sorry you're not feeling like yourself but you're right...it happens to everyone. life is one crazy pms'y beotch, but you'll pull through. hang in there girl :)

Rasha @ and this is what she said... said...

HOpe you feel better love, Im here if you need to talk and I agree, I always think, my kids will be better!! haha i will make them be.

Allyson said...

i'm so glad you want to be one of those mom's that want their children to act normal! and they will if you want them too. it's all about parenting. i know you'll be fabulous!

sorry you had a rough night. i hope today brings you many smiles!! {{hugs}}

Alicia said...

oh man, i know what you mean about the kids! i can't stand when kids are rude to adults or when they just have no manners at all...it drives me nuts! i'm sorry to hear that you had a bad night, i hope things are looking up today!!

Summer B. said...

Feel better, lovey! FEEL BETTER SOON! You are so sweet and darling and lovely in every way! Do something JUST FOR YOU today.

Rachel H. said...

Oh yes...we do all have times where we just feel off. I'm having times where I just can't get comfortable and sleep well, and it's making me feel a bit off. I'm not sure what it is!

Cole said...

I'm sure that you'll raise your kids to have fantastic manners. :-)

Hayley said...

I hate other peoples' kids. Always have. Cuz you know, mine are PERFECT *SNORT*

Sorry you had a rough time last night. Hope your "off" feeling goes away soon!

Mandy said...

Hope your day gets better for you!

Jenni said...

aw feel better sweetie!!!

Selma said...

Feel better soon! Mondays are just awkward and leave us all confused. :(

Amber said...

Sometimes I just feel BLAH and JD tries to figure out why and what he can help me and I don't even know how to explain to him why I'm feeling that way. Then, usually later that day or the next day I'm completely fine, still with NO clue why I was upset! I hope it's something like that with you and not something serious going wrong :-( Will keep you in my prayers and hope for a happier day today! XOXO

katie + bret said...

aw, sweet girl... I hope you are feeling better soon! hugs and kisses coming your way! xx

Annie said...

awww.....I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling 'off'...hoping that you are back to yourself soon. It does happen to all of us though!

What is up with some parents?!?! Sorry that you didnt get to spend the weekend with 3 sweet, adorable, loving little ones...

i am ready for the weekend already too!!
4 more days to go!

Kassie said...

Ahh, I know how you feel. I used to babysit these 'children of the corn' as I always called them. Couldn't take it anymore after awhile!!

SG said...

I'm sorry your night didn't end well. I hope you feel better soon.

I think it's definitely the new wife or husband on Des. Housewives.

Ashley said...

I'm sorry you had a rough night last night. I hope you feel better soon.

brooke said...

oh i can't wait to catch up with housewives tonight!

and bum about being sad and off today lady!!! i hate this feeling...no way to start off a week....thinking about you hun!

Alison said...

Awww honey, what happend???

Crazy Shenanigans said...

I hope everything is alright!

chelsea said...

Sending positive thoughts and blessings your way :)

PorkStar said...

awww, sorry to hear about the sad part... try meeting with prospective ex wife for breakfast, then receive an envelope that contains the legal and official divorce papers, all signed and dated... while being in denial of the whole separation/divorce thing, whishing in the back of the head that maybe it didn't happen...

: (

The SSS Sophisticate said...

I only babysit for babies now, because at least they are easy. Once they hit over the age of about 2, I am out. I can't handle kids! I hope that changes for me too!

PS I left something for you on my blog today!

Sarah said...

I know how you feel I get like that sometimes too, hang in there and it'll get better! Have a great week!! ; >

OceanDreams said...

I hope you feel better soon and good job for hanging in there with so many winy kiddos. I want my kids to have really good manners too! I know how it is to be sad, I've been sad lately too. Feel better, Christmas is coming! XO!

Ambs said...

I hadn't thought of the new housewife! But it TOTALLY makes sense!!!!

Perfectly Imperfect said...

you're a saint. i don't think i could have spent all weekend babysitting without gouging out my eyeballs!

Jax said...

In agreement with the new housewife on the block! And sad your night ended in tears.. I know what you mean about "feeling off" when that stuff happens. It totally wrecks my whole day or even TWO OR THREE days.. I just get so consumed when I get really upset about something.. And you want 4 kids?! I think that's awesome! I want three.. I think. Hm.. yeah.. maybe. hhaa!

Kristen said...

a beer & appetizer sounds great right now! I haven't watched DH from last night yet but now that you mention it about the new neighbor it all seems to make sense! I'd love to know what their story is!

Elizabeth Marie said...

Hi honey. I'm so sorry you're having an off day...I hope things are better?! And boo about rude kids, not a fan.

Smile pretty girl...or as Mayra always tells me, keep your chin up.
xo let me know if you need anything.

Brittany Ann said...

Smile! We love you!

Hang in there! I hope it gets better soon!

Molly said...

Oh, girl. Things will get better! We all go through ups and downs.

As far as kids, I find myself eating alot of my words. I do think that he is learning, although it is ALOT of work and consistancy. I totally understand why some parents just give up. If you want it bad enough, you can make it happen!

Katie said...

I know what you mean about having an off day, but I'm sure you will be out of the funk soon enough.

Feel better girl!

Live, Laugh, Love said...

*hugs* I hope you feel better,too.

Crazy Mommy Katy said...

Hi I am a new follower!
Everyone has times like these!
Cute blog!
xo

Lauren Kelly said...

Oh, girl.... we all have those days. You're certainly NOT alone!!!!

Danielle said...

I think the new housewife is the attacker too! I just got home from my honeymoon yesterday and got all caught up on the past 2 weeks :) BTW, I met a few people from Minnesota!

Lindsey said...

I remember nannying for three little girls and they were crazy! I was so excited to be done with that after the summer. I feel ya.

DREW'S MOM said...

XOXOXO
Sorry you had to deal with the "one family".... some parents just don't know what they're doing..

Naturally Caffeinated Family said...

We all have days like that, I'm sorry you are right now though =(! Hugs! p.s. we would love four kids too=)

Kristin said...

I would like to think that my little dude will have manners. Fingers crossed. Ah ha. I hope you're having a happier day today! My Monday was blahsville too. : )

Blair said...

Sending some love your way...feel better!

xoxo,

Blair

SassyCassie said...

The new housewife who's husband cheated on her with Julie? I hadn't thought of her! I still think it was the husband.

I hope you feel better soon!

Summer said...

Aweee mama!!! Feel better my love!

Maybe you are just blue from that nasty house!!! Seriously, that was just GROSS!!!!

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