Thursday, January 21, 2010

she is coming over tonight...

ya'll remember this post, she did it again...
well she is coming over tonight...
after i posted that post about her always leaving me hanging and not making much of an effort...
she left me hanging two more times...
then finally wrote me an email saying sorry, we just need to hang out...
she felt bad for being so busy all the time...
i agreed, it would be a good idea to spend time together...
we are best friends...
we haven't seen each other in months...
and we only live an hour apart...

a few things have come up in the past few days between her
and i but i'm just going to leave that between...
her and i...
we are best friends, we love each other...
i am thinking tonight will be just like old times...
she got the point that i just miss my best friend...
and that i don't want to feel like a burden in her life anymore...

onto other random things...

THANK YOU...
so much for all your comments from yesterday's post...
i am torn on what to wear now...
i think i'm going to keep looking for a floor length ball gown...
if i don't see anything that catches my eye...
i'm sticking with that little pink blush number...
it is a fancy event...
so i want to kinda fit in ;)

question for everyone...
what is your favorite work out song(s) right now?
my fave running song changes from week to week....
right now, i am loving cascada evacuate the dance floor...
i decided to change up my workout routine a little...
i'm going to the gym every other day...
on the days i don't go i am doing the shred or cardio max...
i favor cardio max so that's what i've been doing this week...
i like the shred but with cardio max, i can get a 30-45 minute workout...

okay enough ramblin for the day....
happy thursday!!
p.s. who knew grapefruits were such a pain in the booty to eat!?

66 comments:

Lindsey said...

I hope tonight goes great girl! You know you have a good friendship when you can go months without seeing each other and then when you get together it's like nothing has changed! Have fun :)!! I'm glad she knows now that you just missed her, no one wants to ever feel like a burden in someones life, especially your best friends life! Hopefully now that is clear things will be looking up and y'all can move forward!! Have a great day doll!

Anonymous said...

I hope everything goes well tonight!!! I'm sure it will be great! Hmm I like a lot of punky music but for some reason nothing is coming to mind! lol ANNND I totally almost bought cardio max and 30 day shred the other day because of you. I didn't though because I'm going to see if there is anyway i can burn them from someone or offline first! but, i thought of you when I was looking at them and hubs was like what is that... and I was like oh I think we should get this because one of my blogger friends has it and shes thin... lol he gets a kick out of me and my blogger friends!

Mrs. Hanson said...

I didn't see your post yesterday... so I just want to chime in and say, get a long dress!! :) Your black one was amazing!!

Also, I had no idea you two had set a date. YAY!! I am crazy excited for you, and your ceremony will be beautiful!! I just want a small wedding too.

Have fun tonight with your girlfriend!

meredith said...

seems like we have a very similar situations with our best friends - my best friend from college sounds a lot like yours, and it can be really hard on me sometimes. and we're just an hour away, too!

i love grapefruits, too but i HATE peeling them! every time my grandma comes in she peels me a whole bag!

The Rest is Still Unwritten said...

I pretty much like every song on the Black Eyed Peas newest CD. It's fun to work out to.

Have fun tonight!

Blair @ Reasonably Swanky said...

I'm glad y'all are going to hang out. Maybe once you talk to her about it she will try and put forth more of an effort. I will be thinking about you.
I tried eating a grapefruit last week and I about died. It squirted me in the eye and they taste disgusting. So I am eating apples this week. Ha!
xo
Blair

Crazy Shenanigans-JMO said...

Well that's great that you're going to hang out! I'm really hoping she doesn't bail on you again! My favorite workout song has got to be 3 by Britney! I'm loving that song!

Lori said...

I hope tonight goes well for you. I think it is great that you are getting together and that you are being honest with her.

My favorite work out song right now is Body Language by Jesse McCartney. I just love that song!!

TexanCouture said...

Have fun tonight!

My two favorite work out songs at the moment are:
Lady Gaga - Telephone
Usher & Gucci Mane - Showstopper

Mrs. Potts said...

I hope that everything will go well tonight.

I'm with Crazy Shenanigans - I love 3 by Britney. I'm also loving Evacuate the Dance Floor, Sweet Dreams by Beyonce, Give It Up To Me - Shakira featuring Lil Wayne, Tik Tok by Kesha & Sexy B*tch David Guetta featuring Akon.

There you have it - part of my favorite playlist lately.

Katie@The Baby Factory said...

Bless your heart for eating Grapefruit.....seriously that makes me gag ;)
Have fun with your friend.....I can totalllllly relate...

Unknown said...

Work out? What does that mean? I haven't worked out in two weeks which is the longest I've gone since giving birth way back. Maybe this will motivate me again!

Good work with the bestie! It's good that you can let her back in and forgive!

Simply Me said...

Hi there!!
My blog email , is on the blog but I know it's hidden so I can't blame you for not seeing it!! HAHA have to find another place for that.
Email me at
simplysaidblog@gmail.com and give me your info...
I'll be up in the air all day today traveling for work but I'll send out the package this weekend or latest by Monday!
Congrats again!!
:)
Kate

Lauren said...

I’m so glad that you and your friend are getting together. I agree, it will probably be just like old times! The past is the past, and just move forward from here :)
Have fun!

Brittany Ann said...

I love Evacuate the Dance Floor! Great Workout song! I use it in my cycle classes!

She has a lot of great techno that I love to workout to!

carrie1 said...

Maybe my "best friend" and your best friend should be best friends. Invited my BF and her boyfriend out for dinner the other night, but she said she had birthday plans for co-worker.. not sure how true that is but anyhoo!

I am getting ready to do my workout playlist

Britney Spears: Circus
Kesha: Tik Tok
David Guetta ft. Akon : Sexy B!@#&
Orianthi: According to you
Imbaland ft Justin Timberlake: Carry Out
Cascada: Evacuate the Dance Floor
Muse: Uprising
Inner Party System: (any song will do)
Shakira ft Lil Wayne: Give it up to me

Anonymous said...

I hope it all works out for you!

As for music - right now I am listening to Mraz's last album, I will be making a new playlist this weekend!

Summer Athena said...

i hope all goes well tonight. you seem like you would be such a lovely and real friend. genuine to a T. i love it.

i missed the dress post. hold please!

Ange said...

I'm loving TikTok by Keisha right now!!
Good luck tonight!

Yet said...

All my friends have gradutated (I'm a double major) and it's hard to meet up with them and things. My best friend lives in another state. I haven't seen her in over a year! wow. how does the time pass? Anyway, I like any music that is fast paced and fun to work out to!

Iva Messy said...

I hope everything goes great tonight!!! ... there are WAY too many songs that I love to work out with WAY WAY WAY too many ;)

brooke said...

still thinking about shoes!!! i need to look! but if you want to go floor length then definitely check out ebay! you can find all the designers for AWESOME prices!! brand new dresses too!! i got that purple one new on ebay with tags still attached for $150 i think...i don't remember but it was a steal since bloomies still had it on their site full price at almost $375!!!

and my running mix...pretty much the same as what you find at my place...used/brand new/30 seconds/evans blue/system of a down/etc...i have to be RAWR style to get my bum going...anything else and i would probably try to dance while running...hahaha!

Shay said...

dont have a work out list for you but I do want to say good luck with your bestie. I am repairing my relationship with mine as we speak...

Live, Laugh, Love said...

Have fun tonight,hun!!

Ashley said...

Have fun tonight! Hopefully the wait was well worth it! :)

PattyAnn said...

good luck with this evening! i love working out to britney songs...cheesy i know, but it's good stuff!

Katy Mary said...

I hope you have fun with your friend, I have friends like that. I have been working out to the Black Eyed Peas new album and Kelly Clarksons new album. Most of the songs are up tempo and great for working out!! Oh and not sure if you saw but I gave you a blog award on my post yesterday! Happy Thursday <3

Danielle said...

Good luck, I really hope it all works out tonight and that you have a fun time with your friend. My favorite workout song right now is Cha Cha by Chelo. It's so upbeat and fun :) Happy Thursday!

Annie said...

I hope that tonight goes great and that it IS just like old times for you two bff's!!!

work out songs?!...ummm I wish...I havent ran in FOREVER :(...sad.

Alexa Mae said...

i love you annie! you are awesome. sometimes even bffs have little spats. but you know they are your bffs because you can always bounce back from them. love you!

Selma @ Crazy Little World Of Mine said...

OMG...so many songs just pop up in my head. :) Right now I'm kinda going for any Lady Gaga song. And the Black Eyed Peas. :D Have fun with your best friend, girl. :D

Unknown said...

I hope you girls have fun tonight! It's always nice when you can just enjoy hanging out and remember all of the great reasons you are friends instead of the drama.

And my favorite workout songs right now are definitely "Empire state of mind" (NEVER gets old to me, and my all-time fave is Christina Aguillera "Stronger". It gets me hyped. :)

LWLH said...

Have fun tonight with your friend!
It's not like I work out that much but when I do I like

Parramore-Misery Business
Lady Gaga
Keysha

Caroline said...

"Tick Tock" by Ke$ha is my workout jam of the moment! anndddd I still LOVE "Just Dance" by Lady GaGa! :)

Caitlin @ Candyfloss & Persie said...

I hope it goes well with your friend and I gotta say, Tik Tok has been a great workout song as of late!

Selma @ Crazy Little World Of Mine said...

...oh just wanted to say I left something for ya on my blog. :D

Alison said...

Good luck with your friend!

Lindsey said...

Have fun with your BFF tonight! My BFF (Ashley - I think you follow her blog too) we only live 5 hours apart and we only see each other like every 4 months or more. It sux but we both get busy. But we still chat almost everyday, so that's good! Happy Thursday and have fun. Oh, btw . . love your new header pic, you look GORGEOUS - as always! =)

Jordan said...

I hope tonight goes great & that she realizes how much she has missed you and tries to make an effort in the future! Good luck! = )

chelsea said...

Have fun with your BF! I always try to remember that two wrongs, for lack of a better phrase-don't make anything better for anyone :) Frustrating, but rising above and being understanding is worth it!

Meg said...

I love the dress in the post below--it is beautiful and I would definitely wear gold with it. I think it would without question fit in especially since like you said, you are one of the youngest there. You would look smoking hot in that dress! I love galas.

Perpetual Prep said...

I really really hope things go well for y'all tonite. I made the effort with a friend that I used to be close to - we drifted apart when she reunited with her "bffs" from college. I reached out, though, and sent her a Facebook message. I told her that I missed our friendship and that I would like to call and catch up. She writes back this (and only this):
Call anytime!

So, I call. That was two weeks ago. She hasn't made the effort to return the call, so I'm going to let it go for now.... Maybe she'll call, maybe she won't - I made the effort and am happy I at least did.

PS - Love the pink dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Perpetual Prep said...

PPS - I really like "I gotta feeling" by the Black Eyed Peas - gets me going everytime!!! :)

Marian said...

1) Grapefruit seriously are the hardest things to eat. I'm always spraying them in my eye. FAIL

2)I'm glad you are spending time with the bff

3)Whenever evacuate the dance floor comes on, I've got to bust a move:)

Unknown said...

Thanks for your sweet comment on my site! had fun at the game..we lost..but its ok..our boys played hard! Your blog is so adorible :)

Unknown said...

so glad you get to spend time with your best friend! :) and my fave workout song? well.. i havn't worked out in quite some time. hahaha! but i usually like listening to kaskade type songs too like moony, etc. :)

Katie said...

Good luck! I hope it went well!

Candice said...

Hey girl! Thanks for your sweet comment on my blog :) I hope tonight goes well with your friend!!! And as far as workout music...I normally either listen to loud rock, like Breaking Benjamin, Evans Blue, 3 Days Grace, or rap music! Whatever it is I need it to be fast and loud! Oh and I love Lady Gaga too :) Have a great weekend!!!!!

Candice said...

Oh and I'm a new follower too :)

christy rose said...

Hope you have a good time tonight with your friend.

bananas. said...

Hey annie! Hope you had fun with your best friend last night and that all your worries were pushed aside. I dont always see my bestie but what i love about us is we can always pick up where we left off. Happy weekend to you!

Sierra said...

I hope you have so much fun with your best friend that you got everything worked out with her, my BF has been doing that lately with me and apologized the other night so I felt better, which is good. I guess sometimes they can get busy but as long as you get that quality time together! Hmmm...work out songs? Well, I love Cascada too {great choices} and also Shakira is also great for jogging for me! Hope you have a fantastic weekend girlie.

Oh and I passed along some awards for you when you get a chance to check them out.

Perfectly Imperfect said...

good luck with your friend tonite.. I've recently lost my best friend and it's hard. If it's supposed to be though, it should be easy... Just remember that =) Friendship shouldn't make you feel bad...

The Undomestic Mom said...

I hope everything went well! You gotta fill us in!

Molly said...

Hope last night went well!

My fav workout song now is Tic Tock by Keisha. Love it!

Oh, and I always spray myself in the eye while eating grapefruit. Hehe.

Lindsey said...

I know exactly how you feel. My best friend and I are going through some things right now as well. It's pretty rough and it's hard that we live so far apart. I hope everything goes well tonight. :)

Stephanie said...

OH how I love that song!
\your blog is adorable too:)

Hope all goes well tonight, things with BFF can get complicated so easily.

Unknown said...

Friendships are funny liek that! I had a really hard time when I first met my husband . . . b/c I was MIA with my friends for a while but they all turned on me. It was really difficult, and a long process to recover the friendships worth saving. But know that true friends will stick with ya no matter what.

Good luck!

Unknown said...

Ooooh yeah and music, I'm cheesy and love the Kesha song "Tik Tok". Get's me all kinds of pumped up at the gym

Amber said...

Hope you had a great time. I know what it feels like to miss your BFF and just want to spend time with them!

Try anything by Kesha - "Blah blah blah" and "Your Love is My Drug" are awesome. When they come on my iPod I kick it into high gear... Hope this helps!

Whitney said...

Thanks for your sweet comment, Annie! Missing friends stinks! :)

mommywonderland said...

Good for you for sticking it out! I think your a better friend than I...I might be one to blow her off..eye for an eye...not good! Your to sweet for that though :) My favorite song while I work out is Justin Timberlake..Damn girl!!!

Alison Kinsey said...

Your blog is super cute, you and your boy are adorable together. I didn't see your previous blog post, but I can tell you I think I'm currently going through something similar. I hope things work out and that you have a fabulous time!

xo

drollgirl said...

well she better not flake on you! i hope she showed and that you guys had a great time!

and hope your weekend is fab all the way around! :)

wife.mom.nurse said...

I hope things went well with your friend :)

I am a shredder. That's it. And I put it on my laptop with the volume down and watch TV. The monotony KILLS me !

Oh, cannot wait to see a pix of your dress!!!

Gwen said...

Hey girl. I saw your tweet that she didn't show again. What happened? Have you talked to her since?

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